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The following Wedding Planning Checklist
itemizes everything you need to do or consider when planning your wedding,
and the best time in which to accomplish each activity.
This checklist assumes that you have nine months or more to plan your
wedding. If your wedding is less than nine months, just start from the
beginning of the list and try to catch up as quickly as you can!
6-12
months
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Announce your
engagement.
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Select a date for
your wedding.
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Hire a professional
wedding consultant.
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Determine the type of
wedding you want: location, formality, time
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of day, number of
guests, etc.
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Determine budget and
how expenses will be shared.
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Start planning your
honeymoon.
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Develop a
record-keeping system for payments made.
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Consolidate all guest
lists: bride's, groom's, bride's family, groom's family, and organize as
follows:
1) those who must be invited
2) those who should be invited
3) those who would be nice to invite
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Decide if you want to
include children among guests.
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Select and reserve
ceremony site.
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Select and reserve
your officiate.
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Select and reserve
reception site.
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Select and order your
bridal gown and headpiece.
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Determine your color
scheme.
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Send engagement
notice with a photograph to your local newspaper.
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Buy a calendar and
note all important activities: showers, luncheons, parties,
get-togethers, etc.
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If ceremony or
reception is at home, arrange for home or garden improvements as needed.
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Order passport, visa
or birth certificate, if needed for your honeymoon or marriage license.
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Select and book
photographer.
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Select maid of honor,
best man, bridesmaids and ushers (approx. one usher per 50 guests).
SIX TO
NINE MONTHS BEFORE THE WEDDING
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Select flower girl
and ring bearer.
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Select and book
reception musicians or DJ. (Music on Demand)
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Schedule fittings and
delivery dates for yourself, attendants, flower girl and ring bearer.
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Select and book
videographer.
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Select and book
florist.
FOUR TO
SIX MONTHS BEFORE WEDDING
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Start shopping for
each other's wedding gifts.
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Reserve rental items
needed for ceremony & reception.
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Finalize guest list.
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Select and order
wedding invitations, announcements and other stationery such as
thank-you notes, wedding programs, and seating cards.
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Address invitations
or hire a calligrapher.
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Set date, time and
location for your rehearsal dinner.
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Arrange
accommodations for out-of- town guests
with PR Travel
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Select and book all
miscellaneous services, i.e. gift attendant, valet parking, etc.
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Register for gifts.
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Purchase shoes &
accessories.
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Begin to break-in
your shoes.
TWO TO
FOUR MONTHS BEFORE WEDDING
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Select bakery and
order wedding cake.
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Order party favors.
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Select and order room
decorations.
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Purchase honeymoon
attire & luggage.
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Select and book
transportation (Matchless Limousine) for wedding day.
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Check blood test and
marriage license requirements.
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Shop for wedding
rings and engrave them.
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Consider having your
teeth cleaned or bleached.
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Consider writing a
will and/or prenuptial agreement.
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Plan activities for
your out-of-town guests both before and after the wedding.
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Purchase gifts for
wedding attendants.
SIX TO
EIGHT WEEKS BEFORE WEDDING
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Mail invitations. Include accommodations and a map to assist guests in
finding the ceremony and reception sites.
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Maintain a record of
RSVPs and all gifts received. Send thank-you notes upon receipt of
gifts.
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Determine hair style
and makeup.
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Schedule to have your
hair, makeup and nails done the day of the wedding.
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Finalize shopping for
wedding day accessories such as toasting glasses, ring pillow, guest
book, etc.
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Set up an area or a
table in your home to display gifts as you receive them.
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Check with your local
newspapers for wedding announcement requirements.
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Have your formal
wedding portrait taken.
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Send wedding
announcement & photograph to your local newspapers.
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Change name & address
on drivers license, social security card, insurance policies,
subscriptions, bank accounts, memberships, etc.
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Select and reserve
wedding attire for groom, ushers, father of the bride and ring bearer.
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Select a guest book
attendant. Decide where and when to have guests sign in.
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Mail invitations to
rehearsal dinner.
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Get blood test and
health certificate.
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Obtain marriage
license.
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Plan a luncheon or
dinner with your bridesmaids. Give them their gifts at that time or at
the rehearsal dinner.
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Find "something
old, something new, something borrowed, something blue, and a six pence
(or shiny penny) for your shoe."
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Finalize your menu,
beverage and alcohol order.
TWO TO
SIX WEEKS BEFORE WEDDING
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Confirm ceremony
details with your officiant.
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Arrange final fitting
of bridesmaids' dresses.
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Have final fitting of
your gown and headpiece.
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Finalize rehearsal
dinner plans; arrange seating and write names on place cards, if
desired.
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Make final floral
selections.
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Make a detailed timeline for your wedding party.
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Make a detailed
timeline for your service providers.
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Confirm details with
all service providers, including attire. Give them a copy of your
wedding timeline.
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Start packing for
your honeymoon.
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Finalize addressing
and stamping announcements.
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Decide if you want to
form a receiving line. If so, determine when and where to form the line.
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Contact guests who
haven't responded.
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Pick up rings and
check for fit.
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Meet with
photographer and confirm special photos you want.
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Meet with
videographer and confirm special events or people you want videotaped.
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Meet with musicians (Music
on Demand) and confirm music to be played during special events such
as first dance.
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Continue writing
thank-you notes as gifts arrive.
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Remind bridesmaids
and ushers of when and where to pick up their wedding attire.
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Purchase the
lipstick, nail polish and any other accessories you want your
bridesmaids to wear.
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Determine ceremony
seating for special guests. Give a list to the ushers.
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Plan reception room
layout and seating with your reception site manager or caterer. Write
names on place cards for arranged seating.
THE
LAST WEEK
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Pick up wedding
attire and make sure everything fits.
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Do final guest count
and notify your caterer or reception site manager.
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Gather everything you
will need for the rehearsal and wedding day as listed in the Wedding
Party Responsibility Cards.
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Arrange for someone
to drive the getaway car. Call Matchless Limo
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Review the schedule
of events and last minute arrangements with your service providers.
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Confirm all honeymoon
reservations and accommodations. Pick up tickets and travelers checks.
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Finish packing your
suitcases for the honeymoon.
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Familiarize yourself
with guests' names. It will help during the receiving line and
reception.
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Have the Post Office
hold your mail while you are away on your honeymoon.
THE
REHEARSAL DAY
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Review list of things
to bring to the rehearsal as listed in the Wedding Party Responsibility
Cards.
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Put suitcases in
getaway car.
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Give your bridesmaids
the lipstick, nail polish and accessories you want them to wear for the
wedding.
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Give best man the
officiant's fee and any other checks for service providers. Instruct him
to deliver these checks the day of the wedding.
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Arrange for someone
to bring accessories such as flower basket, ring pillow, guest book &
pen, toasting glasses, cake cutting knife and napkins to the ceremony
and reception. Your consultant should handle this.
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Arrange for someone
to mail announcements the day after the wedding.
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Arrange for someone
to return rental items such as tuxedos, slip and cake pillars after the
wedding.
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Provide each member
of your wedding party with a detailed schedule of events for the wedding
day.
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Review ceremony
seating with ushers.
THE
WEDDING DAY
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Review list of things
to bring to the ceremony as listed in the Wedding Party Responsibility
Cards.
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Give the groom's ring
to the maid of honor. Give the bride's ring to the best man.
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Simply follow your
detailed schedule of events.
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Relax and enjoy your
wedding!
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